Who exactly is the enemy here?
If someone invites a person to a peace conference, and then murders him on his way to attend that event, would you say that this killer is the kind of person you’d like to hang out with (thinking he’s just like your favorite Hollywood superhero — handsome, powerful and dishonorable)?
If you put your faith in weapons, but have no regard for those they hurt, no matter how many people you might kill or make sick for life, is this the kind of person you would trust with your children (as so many do when they let their kids join the Army)?
If you worship a God who champions the murder of infidels — of all those “not like you” — and promises you prizes that are only the camouflaged projections of sexually inadequate perverts, would you continue to worship that God (is this why people no longer send their kids to church)?